Before Sex She Wants You To...
1. Kiss HerIt seems that kissing has become a bit of a lost art in this day and age and this is especially the case when a couple has been together for a long time. Spend a few minutes just kissing (a.k.a. making out) the way you did when you were a teenager. You'd be surprised at how hot kissing can really be!
2. Indulge in Some ForeplayWomen need a little more than guys do in order to get really turned in and primed for action. By treating them to more foreplay, not only do you increase their chances of an orgasm, but you're also setting yourself up for some very hot sex to follow!
3. Be RomanticThis should come as no shocker to anyone as it has been a problem since the beginning of man! While women enjoy a hard sexy throw down on occasion, they still want to be pampered and romanced a little.
Take some time to light a candle or two or just say something romantic. It doesn't take a bed sprinkled with rose petals to make a woman happy-though that would be great too.
During Sex She Wants You To...
4. Look Into Her EyesYou can't even begin to imagine how incredibly arousing it can be to keep your eyes focused on each other during sex.
It creates an intimacy like nothing else which most women crave from their partners and it can really help you get in tune with each other so you're better able to know what feels good to them and what could use a little work; all without having to say a word.
5. Be A Little RoughYes, women want romance and tenderness, but most often before sex. During sex a woman wants to feel the passion and the urgency that comes from being wanted and desired.
Men are often afraid to be too rough, but the truth is that many women want to be handled a little harder during sex. Note: Tip #5 is a great one to help gauge just how rough you should be with her.
6. Not Forget Her ClitorisThe clitoris is the female equivalent of the penis, meaning that it is full of pleasure-feeling nerve endings that need to be stimulated to achieve orgasm. Most often a man will be so wrapped up in all the thrusting that he will neglect the most sensual part of her body. Spend some time on the clitoris and you'll make her one happy camper!
After Sex She Wants You To...
7. CuddleBig surprise! a woman wants to be held a little after sex as opposed to having you roll over and fall asleep like she's not even there. Put your arms around her, let her rest her head on you and try to stay awake for the next tip.
8. Say SomethingAgain, this one should come as no surprise. This is because women tend to feel more vulnerable after sex and by taking the time to listen and talk to her; you are making her feel more at ease and special.
9. Be TenderOnce the passionate, raw sex is done and over with, it's time to treat her like a delicate little lady again.